Living from Your Center: Regulating Stress, Reclaiming Balance, and Rewriting Your Story
Transitions are powerful portals for transformation. Whether you’re navigating an empty nest, career change, or simply sensing the pull toward something more aligned, now is the perfect time to return to your center.
I recently had the honor of speaking at the Embracing the Empty Nest summit. Our conversation touched on one of the most pressing challenges women face today: chronic stress—and how to meet it with compassion, regulation, and resilience
💡 Stress Is Not the Enemy—Disconnection Is
Stress, at its core, is not bad. Your sympathetic nervous system exists to protect you in moments of real danger. The issue arises when this response remains activated long after the perceived threat is gone. When we live in that heightened state—disconnected from our breath, body, and clarity—it takes a toll on every system of our being.
The good news? You can interrupt the cycle.
You can bring your nervous system back into balance.
You can return to your intuitive, wise self.
You can live from your center.
🧘♀️ Simple, Free Tools to Restore Homeostasis
In my book Living from the Center Within, I outline a full chapter of accessible practices to help regulate your stress response. Here are a few you can begin using right now:
- Box Breathing: Inhale for four counts, hold for four, exhale for four, hold for four.
- Mindful Presence: Use all five senses to ground yourself in the current moment.
- Shower Rituals: Turn your shower into a practice of intentional presence using scent, sound, and sensation.
- Music, Aromatherapy & Movement: Choose tools that activate your parasympathetic nervous system and nourish your energy.
- Storytelling & Self-Reflection: Rewrite the internal narrative. You are not just surviving change—you are creating what comes next.
These practices don’t require more time. They require intention. Even 30 seconds of conscious breath can shift your state and reconnect you to who you truly are.
🔄 Rewriting the Story of “Busy”
Creating work–life balance doesn’t begin with an open calendar. It begins with the belief that you are worth prioritizing. That your needs matter. That your well-being is essential—not optional.
Ask yourself:
- When was the last time I chose myself on purpose?
- Where in my day can I return to presence, even briefly?
- What rhythms would support me if I stopped waiting for a break and started creating space?
When you start showing up for yourself regularly, something shifts. You stop looking for permission. You stop postponing joy. You start rewriting the story.
🌀 Offerings for Your Next Chapter
For women ready to live more intentionally and authentically, I offer coaching, courses, and a rich library of resources designed to help you access your inner wisdom. Some current offerings include:
- Private Coaching: For individuals in transition who want to move from awareness to action.
- Deep Coaching & Facilitative Leadership Courses: Group programs designed to help you align your inner life with the contribution you want to make in the world.
- Free Resources + Newsletter: Tools to help you deepen your practice, including a downloadable guided meditation to help you reconnect with your center.
- The Book: Living from the Center Within: Co-Creating Who You Are Becoming is available now for those seeking a deeper dive into personal transformation.
💫 You don’t need a blank slate to begin again. You need only a willingness to choose yourself in this moment—and the next.